The Dawn of Day(Friedrich Nietzsche)

 1. Blaming others is always the problem.


When a war is lost, people try to find the person who is 'responsible' for the war. When a war is won, people praise the person who started the war. Wherever there is failure, responsibility is pursued.

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Not only in war, but whenever a big incident occurs, if something goes wrong, they find the person responsible and do a witch hunt, and if something goes well, they praise him.

It seems that the nature of the human race itself is like that.

Even now, many problems and good things happen not only in our country but also all over the world.

Due to the development of SNS, many things that happen are quickly shared and talked about.

However, I think that we need to take a step back and look at things, whether they are good or problematic, at least once.

If you don't empathize too much and think rationally, you may find the answer.

I hope that we don't become a crowd that engages in witch hunts, and that we become a free country where various opinions are accepted rather than dichotomous logic.


2. I don't think we need to persuade others too much.


In some arguments. 

-A: Friend, you've talked yourself to death!

B: Then I've been refuted. Let's stop arguing.

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There seems to be no need to persuade, force, or ridicule others just because their opinions differ from mine.

Korea seems to be divided into extremely dichotomous arguments and opinions these days.

There are not only two ways to live in this world.

It seems like the past is repeating itself, just like the Noron and Soron factions fought during the Joseon Dynasty.

I think each person needs to think a lot and try to understand others, but it's really difficult.

If someone already has a firm position, it's better to just accept them rather than try to persuade them.


3. Let's always try to make them feel good.


Peace in the family and peace in the soul - Usually, our mood depends on how we feel in our surroundings.

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I think that in order to live a peaceful life, our mood is the most important.

After a fight between spouses, you will continue to feel bad until you resolve it, so things will not go well.

Or, depending on the state of your surroundings, such as your family, acquaintances, and coworkers, the effects will appear on your family and yourself.

That is why we need to control our moods and always lead them in a good direction in order to achieve peace in our family and soul.

I find it very difficult, but I think it is best to have as many good thoughts and an understanding mind as possible, because your bad mood will eventually affect your life.

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