What you need to achieve your goal

 1. Interest (curiosity)


- People only see things they are interested in. For example, if someone is about to enlist in the military, they will start to see soldiers they didn't see on the street. Or, if they become interested in dieting, they will start to see diet advertisements on the internet, buses, etc. that they didn't see before. When a certain field or thing of interest arises, things that they didn't see before become more visible and they become interested. That's why online search engines like Google and shopping malls show words that customers searched for or items they selected (related items) as pop-ups or advertisements. Once you do something, you start to become interested or curious. It can become a job or a hobby. And no matter how much you talk to someone who isn't interested, they won't listen or remember because they aren't interested. Once you first become interested, do some hard research, look it up, and consider whether it's the right thing for you and whether you can do it.​​


2. Earnestness (will, method)


- When you decide to do something, think about whether you really want to do it. If you are desperate, you will work harder, not give up, and find a method. For example, let's say you desperately want to own a house. There are many ways to do it. You can apply by preparing a subscription account and applying according to the conditions, purchasing through an auction, or saving up a lot of money to purchase. Also, you need to research terms and conditions to apply, and the same goes for auctions. And you need to learn how to save money fundamentally. You need to study ways to make money, such as savings, deposits, dividends, and stocks. If you set a goal, you need to study the methods you need according to your situation. If you are desperate, you will find a method and study.


3. Persistence (perseverance)


- If you become interested, know the method, and practice it, you will want to give up several times. However, effort never betrays. The knowledge you learn one by one will accumulate and combine to create a synergy effect. There is a saying that "A dog in a private school can recite poetry after three years." No matter how unpleasant, difficult, and hard something is, if you gain experience, you will eventually achieve what you want. Let's be persistent and work hard. I think the difference between animals and humans is the ability to implement thoughts. That's why people have to study all their lives. I believe that if you live a life of continuous development, your life will become more fun and happy.

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